MIDNIGHT  SUNSHINE

A few months ago Peralta Press was kind enough to send my a complementary edition of the book "Midnight Sunshine," by Kelvin L. Reed.  My general rule is to never read a book I buy (those are destined to sit on a shelf collecting dust, awaiting rediscovery by some future generation) and to always read a book I am loaned or given.  I do not encourage this kind of conduct by the way, especially since I sell books myself! But the fact is that Peralta's gift was a kind gesture I could not refuse, all the more so because the book is about a Fil-West couple's relationship, a subject that's obviously near and dear to my heart. 

The main character in the story is Nathan Patterson, a smart, industrious, and utterly likeable American gentleman who meets his Filipina fiancée, Marife, through a correspondence service.  Chronologically, the book starts well into the engagement, with Marife still in the Philippines, and concludes shortly after the marriage itself between she and Nathan.

The book isn't what I'd call "gripping", but obviously Mr. Reed was not intent on writing a thriller.  This is a book about the complexities of Fil-West relationships, and Mr. Reed did an admirable job in that regard.  Incidentally, it would be wrong for anyone to think that Midnight Sunshine's instructiveness is inhibited by the book's status as "fiction".  Quite to the contrary.  Though the characters are not real, the situations in which they find themselves are strikingly familiar -  for example, the reaction of Nathan's friends and family after he reveals his intent to marry a Filipina whom he met through a correspondence service.  Also, Marife's hopes and fears about her new life in America, which she expresses in her letters to Nathan, reflect the actual sentiments of most Filipinas in her situation.  The story also addresses those little mistruths, or hidden truths, that so often afflict Fil-West relationships. 

Of note, this is perhaps the only book that focuses on how the African-American community might react to such a relationship, since the lead character is himself African-American.  I don't want to stress that point too much, because the author himself doesn't really linger on it, but it does bear mentioning.  Still, the fact is that this really is a book anyone of any ethnicity can enjoy - so long as they have an interest in Fil-West relationships, of course.  The author himself, by the way, is African-American and he does in fact have a Filipina wife, so he writes from experience.

After I'd finished reading the book, I sent the publisher a few questions which I thought might be valuable in this review.  

QUESTION: First, I'm assuming that this novel is semi-biographical.  How true to Mr. Reed's (the author) own life is this book? 
 
ANSWER:  Mr. Reed and his wife did meet the same way as the couple in the novel. From what Dr. Reed tells me, he paid an agency to place an ad in an overseas publication, from which he received several replies, almost all from Filipinas. Eventually, he and one woman in particular fell in love, he visited the Philippines in the spring of 1994 to meet her and her family, and she arrived in the U.S. eight months later. They were married in the spring of 1995.
 
QUESTION:  What parts are pure fiction?
 
ANSWER:  Most of the book is pure fiction. (Dr. Reed often tells me that a fiction writer should take only the basic idea from reality and create the rest.) In real life Dr. Reed was a public school teacher, and is now an educational consultant--and writer. Mrs. Reed eventually received her BS in business administration at a college in the U.S. and now works for a large office supply chain.
 
QUESTION:  What is the best way for my readers to obtain a copy of Midnight Sunshine?
 
ANSWER:  The best way to obtain the book is through toll-free ordering at (800) 431-1579. Another way is through Amazon.com at:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0966763157/qid=1035173039/sr=1-2/ref=sr_1_2/104-7780626-1867900?v=glance
 
QUESTION:  Are autographed copies available?
 
ANSWER:  To obtain an autographed copy one can request that the book be autographed when ordering through the 800 number, or print the order form from the company web site (www.peraltapub.com) and send in a check or money order.
 
I'm happy to recommend this book to anyone involved, or merely interested, in Fil-West marriage.  Mr. Reed is a gifted writer and reading Midnight Sunshine is practically effortless as a result.  Enjoy! 

All original materials on this website (www.asawa.org, www.filipinawives.com) are copyrighted by the author, Bob Lingerfelt, 1997 -2007  with materials on file at the U.S. Copyright Office.  No reproduction is authorized, in any form, without express permission of the author.

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Section I: Pre-Relationship Education

 

Fun Trivia About The Philippines

Philippine History In A Nutshell 

Religion

What's In A Name?

A List of Famous Filipinas

The American Romance

The "Average" Fil-West Couple

So You Want To Marry A Filipina

So You STILL Want To Marry…

Heaven Or Hell?

Mail Order Brides Fact & Fiction 

Correspondence Services

Legal Concerns

Age Differences

The Attack On Feminism

A Shortage Of Filipino Males?  

The Problem With Submission

City Vs. Province

Questions For Her

Questions For Him

Suggested Books

Midnight Sunshine, a novel

A Long Way to Go for a Date

Recommended Movies

 

Section II: Courtship

 

Your Travel Budget

Flying to the Philippines

What To Take To The Philippines

Travel Tips

Philippines Travel Guide

Ninoy Aquino Int'l Airport

Security In The Philippines

Recommended Hotels

Social Situations

Learning To Communicate

Sex And Virginity

The Visitor's Visa

 

Section III: 

Engagement/

Marriage                       

                      

Taking Your Relationship Public

Expenses

Prenuptials

Annulments

So You Want an Annulment?

Wedding Costs In The Philippines

Marriage - Where and How

A Filipina Abandoned

"Separate But Equal"?

 

Section IV:

Immigration

 

Immigration Pointers

Proof Of Your Relationship

The Marriage Application

Fiancée Visa (K-1)

Spousal Visa (IR-1)

K1 & K3 Procedures

Evidence of Non-Immigrant Status (SSN)

Employment Authorization for Immigrants

St. Luke's Clinic

Immigration Numbers And Addresses

Minimum Income Requirements

 

Section V: 

Lifetime Issues

 

Health And Dental Issues

Filipina Transitions

Superstitions

Dealing With Intolerance

Tampo

Financial Support Of Relatives  

Sources of Conflict

Appendix:

 

Immigration Forms

Statistics

CIA Fact Sheet On The Philippines 

Map Of The Philippines

Electricity

Currency

Holidays

Name Structure

How To Send Money

How To Send Mail And Packages

Republic Act No. 6955

Family Code Of The Philippines

Terms And Acronyms

Filipino Communities

 

Guest Articles:

 

John's Story

Maligaya Means It

You May Be  Married to a Filipina if…

Imee

Weddings in the Philippines

The TownHouse Hotel, Manila