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Religion

It would be a serious understatement to say that most Filipinos are Catholic.  That would be like calling the atomic bomb a firecracker.   

Filipinos are, by and large, VERY Catholic.  In fact, the first thing the Spanish did when they landed in the islands four centuries ago was to start educating the pagans they found there about the merits of Christianity, Catholic style.  It was an education that lasted from around the year 1565 to 1899, when the United States drove the Spanish from the Philippines.  A popular expression goes that the Philippines spent “300 years in the Convent”, and that’s not far from the truth.   

As a result, the Philippines is the third largest Catholic nation in the world, behind the United States and Brazil.  Images of the Virgin Mary and Jesus are absolutely everywhere in the Philippines.  Crucifixes and rosaries abound.  Most homes have at least a shelf, if not a full-blown shrine, dedicated to the Virgin and Child.  It is usually adorned with small figurines, weathered palm leaves, vials of holy water, or other religious memorabilia.  Church attendance is unquestioned and frequent, especially among females.  In Pampanga, during Holy Week, flagellants whip themselves in the streets and a few even get nailed to a cross, reenacting the tribulations of Christ.  Visions of the Virgin Mary are widespread and stories of miracles are widely circulated and rarely questioned.  Divorce is illegal, largely because the Catholic Church is opposed to it. 

You get the idea.  Don’t jump to any conclusions just yet, though.  In the Philippines, many things are more complicated than they appear.  Here are some things you might want to know... 

If you’re not Catholic, you might think that you’re automatically disqualified from consideration as a potential mate for a Filipina.  Not true.  Most Filipinas are quite amenable to non-Catholic men.  It helps tremendously, though, if you’re Christian, or as most Filipinas put it, “God Fearing”.  As an example, I’m not Catholic, but that’s never been an issue in my marriage.  If you’re not Christian, or perhaps not religious at all, you’ll probably have a harder time finding an admiring Filipina, though if you express respect for the lady’s beliefs, that will go a long way toward her acceptance of you.   

Not all Filipinas are Catholic, of course.  In fact, the percentage is around 85%, which means that there are still tens of thousands of Filipinas who are not Catholic.  The other 15% is composed largely of, and Muslims.   

Many Filipino Protestants worship in small churches that are united under an umbrella organization called the National Council of Churches in the Philippines (NCCP).  This includes, notably, former President Fidel Ramos.  Protestantism has existed in the Philippines for only a short period, roughly a century, and consequently has vastly fewer converts than Catholicism.  At the conclusion of the Spanish-American War in 1899, American Presbyterian and Methodist missionaries began to trickle into the islands, but found limited success among the diehard Catholic population in the lowlands.  Conversion in the highlands, where Catholicism had not yet taken root, was considerably easier.   

Today, you’ll find a sampling of almost all Protestant denominations in the Philippines, to include Methodists, Baptists, Church of God, etc.  There are also a few indigenous Protestant movements that you may not be aware of. 

Consider, for example, the “Iglesia ni Kristo”, literally translated as “Church of Christ” - though it’s not affiliated with the Church of Christ in the United States.  It’s a uniquely Filipino brand of Protestantism that claims one of the largest Protestant congregations in the islands.  A Filipino, Felix Manalo Ysagun, founded the church in 1914, and almost all church members are Filipino, even in those churches that exist outside the Philippines.  The biggest doctrinal difference between this faith and traditional Protestantism is that the Iglesia ni Kristo portrays Jesus as a mere prophet.  I have no firsthand experience with this church, but it’s reputed to be extremely strict and authoritarian, with church leaders wielding absolute power over their flock.  Reportedly, only members of the Iglesia ni Kristo faith are allowed to attend church services (i.e., no visitors of other faiths).  Also, importantly, an Iglesia ni   Kristo follower may not marry anyone who is not also of the Iglesia ni Kristo faith.  Thus, marriages between westerners and Filipinas of this faith are almost unheard of. 

Then there’s the Philippine Independent Church. When Filipino revolutionary leader Aguinaldo returned from his Hong Kong exile at the request of the Americans, he appointed Rev. Fr. Gregorio Aglipay as Military Vicar General of the Revolutionary Government.  There was no love lost between Aguinaldo and the Catholic Church, yet the young leader knew his followers desired spiritual guidance.  Consequently, he charged Aglipay with providing it.  Though Aguinaldo, Aglipay, and their followers lost their war against the Americans, Aglipay’s ministry continued. He formally broke from the Catholic Church in 1902, blaming the Church for many of the ills his countrymen had suffered, and began the Iglesia Filipina Independiente (Philippine Independent Church). The faith itself is usually referred to as Aglipayanism.   The Aglipayan church has suffered a bit a schism in the 1930’s, when Aglipay began professing what was tantamount to a Unitarian viewpoint, which included a rejection of the Trinity.   Church members unwilling to reject the Trinity rebelled in large numbers, yet they still considered themselves Aglipayans.  These dissenters sued for the right to call themselves the real Aglipayan Church, and ultimately won both that right and all church properties.  The victors have since associated with the Protestant Episcopal church of the United States.  

Islam in the Philippines is ages old, and the entire archipelago would have probably ended up Muslim were it not for the arrival of the Spanish in the 16th Century.  Islam had already taken root in the southern islands and was progressing north at a steady pace until the Spanish missionaries arrived and put a Christian roadblock in the Visayas.  Then, and in later centuries, many thousands of lives were lost in the southern Philippines as Spanish, American, and Filipino nationalists (predominantly Christian) tried to subdue the Muslim tribes there.  That battle continues to this very day, in fact, with groups like the MILF (Moro Islamic Liberation Front) and MNLF (Moro National Liberation Front) engaged in frequent firefights with government forces.  Almost all this activity occurs on the island of Mindanao and a few adjacent isles.   

It is extremely unusual for a westerner to enter into a relationship with a Muslim Filipina.  It’s statistically unlikely because there are very few western Muslim men seeking Filipina wives, and very few Filipina Muslims seeking western husbands.  It does happen, of course, on rare occasions.  There was the much-publicized relationship between Jeffrey Schilling, a Muslim American, and his Muslim Filipina wife.  The reason it comes to mind is that Mr. Schilling was kidnapped by Filipino Muslim separatists while on vacation in the Philippines and held for several months before finally being released, ostensibly because he was Muslim himself (though that fact didn’t seem to deter his kidnappers from detaining him for several weeks).  

(End of book excerpt – if you’d like the entire text, please consider ordering The ASAWA Guide to Fil-West Relationships.  Thank you!)


All original materials on this website (www.asawa.org, www.filipinawives.com) are copyrighted by the author, Bob Lingerfelt, 1997 -2007  with materials on file at the U.S. Copyright Office.  No reproduction is authorized, in any form, without express permission of the author.

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Section I: Pre-Relationship Education

 

Fun Trivia About The Philippines

Philippine History In A Nutshell 

Religion

What's In A Name?

A List of Famous Filipinas

The American Romance

The "Average" Fil-West Couple

So You Want To Marry A Filipina

So You STILL Want To Marry…

Heaven Or Hell?

Mail Order Brides Fact & Fiction 

Correspondence Services

Legal Concerns

Age Differences

The Attack On Feminism

A Shortage Of Filipino Males?  

The Problem With Submission

City Vs. Province

Questions For Her

Questions For Him

Suggested Books

Midnight Sunshine, a novel

A Long Way to Go for a Date

Recommended Movies

 

Section II: Courtship

 

Your Travel Budget

Flying to the Philippines

What To Take To The Philippines

Travel Tips

Philippines Travel Guide

Ninoy Aquino Int'l Airport

Security In The Philippines

Recommended Hotels

Social Situations

Learning To Communicate

Sex And Virginity

The Visitor's Visa

 

Section III: 

Engagement/

Marriage                       

                      

Taking Your Relationship Public

Expenses

Prenuptials

Annulments

So You Want an Annulment?

Wedding Costs In The Philippines

Marriage - Where and How

A Filipina Abandoned

"Separate But Equal"?

 

Section IV:

Immigration

 

Immigration Pointers

Proof Of Your Relationship

The Marriage Application

Fiancée Visa (K-1)

Spousal Visa (IR-1)

K1 & K3 Procedures

Evidence of Non-Immigrant Status (SSN)

Employment Authorization for Immigrants

St. Luke's Clinic

Immigration Numbers And Addresses

Minimum Income Requirements

 

Section V: 

Lifetime Issues

 

Health And Dental Issues

Filipina Transitions

Superstitions

Dealing With Intolerance

Tampo

Financial Support Of Relatives  

Sources of Conflict

Appendix:

 

Immigration Forms

Statistics

CIA Fact Sheet On The Philippines 

Map Of The Philippines

Electricity

Currency

Holidays

Name Structure

How To Send Money

How To Send Mail And Packages

Republic Act No. 6955

Family Code Of The Philippines

Terms And Acronyms

Filipino Communities

 

Guest Articles:

 

John's Story

Maligaya Means It

You May Be  Married to a Filipina if…

Imee

Weddings in the Philippines

The TownHouse Hotel, Manila